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Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Hints for Guys

I never knew about friend for life proposal not until Kokey proposed that to me.  I was amazed and petrified for a while. I never heard anything something like that before, nor even that kind of idea ever cross my mind.  It is kind of funny, but cute and so heartwarming. Hearing that felt so nice knowing that someone would want you as their friend for a lifetime.  It’s like that you are being appreciated though not worthy of. Simple as that but it was really a big nice surprise. Later on I found out that yesterday is a Proposal Day for them so I was Lucky to be involved.  It would feel nicer if my other part would propose, well unexpectedly he did.
Talking about proposal, something just came to mind. Do men take time to realize what women think, feel, and need before they propose? Or are they even aware of it? I think it’s better for them to know before they propose to get some good effect.
Well women differ from each other by feelings, thinking’s and needs but here are some hints for guys out there. For most women Sincerity matter most. We can tell when you do something for us out of your desire to show affection of love or just out of obligation. Be subtle in displaying your feelings. How you treat your mother have a big impact to us women, it about treatment thing. Don’t ever face your women with guilty feeling surely you will be counted as cheaters. So if you are being questioned, don’t think that we are trying to corner you, we are just giving you opportunity to clarify yourself and come clean, so if you act like one guilty person in front of us we think you are really cheating. To avoid this remind your woman always how much you love her. Women always want to hear that , not necessarily every minute or every day , once in a while  is enough. Don’t forget to acknowledge your woman or appreciate them for every act they had done  for you, a simple thank you could mean a lot. Surprise and date her, it’s a big plus. Listen when your woman talks. We don’t always needs an answer especially when we talk about our problems, just you being our sympathetic listener is already a big thing, never ignore us in this state, it will make us feel unimportant. One more thing, never throw misogynistic jokes it’s not really funny at all.  As per my experience and as a woman, these are just few hints on how should guys treat a woman.  Well it just makes me think since it was their Proposal Day. -_-

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